佔上風

這麼說起來，到底是誰比較佔上風 ？

Speaking of which, who exactly has the upper hand?

我朋友是那種一定要佔上風的人！

My friend is the type who always needs to have the upper hand!

別試圖去挽回他,這樣只會讓他佔上風

Don't try to win him back, that will only give him the upper hand.